Rajeev Verma
“Nobody Is Ever Truly ‘Too Busy’— If They Are Genuinely Interested, They Will Make Time”. A Deep Philosophical and Practical Reflection. We have all heard this sentence at some point—or perhaps said it ourselves:
“I’m very busy.”
In modern life, this phrase has become the most convenient excuse. Yet when we honestly examine our experiences and relationships, a hard truth emerges: no one is ever so busy that they cannot make time for what truly matters to them.
This statement is emotional, but more importantly, it reveals a fundamental truth about human psychology and priorities.
It’s Not About Time, It’s About Priority
Everyone has the same 24 hours in a day.
Someone working three jobs still finds time for their favorite show.
A busy CEO still finds a moment to send a message to someone important. So the question is not whether time exists. The real question is: where do you stand on their priority list?
For what we value:
– Time appears
– Energy is found
– Excuses disappear
“Busy” — A Polite Rejection
Often, “I’m busy” does not actually mean the person is overwhelmed with work. It usually means:
“This is not important enough to me right now.”
This may sound harsh, but truth often is. People rarely say directly that:
– they are not interested
– they don’t want to make the effort
– they don’t prioritize the relationship
So “busy” becomes a shield.
Interest Always Reveals Itself Through Action
When someone is genuinely interested:
– they initiate contact
– they fix a time
– they respond even during odd hours
– they remember small details
Interest does not need explanations. It naturally shows up in behavior.
Time Is the Language of Relationships
Love, friendship, and connection share one universal language: time.
A person who: never makes time for you
– delays replies constantly
– keeps postponing meetings
– may make big promises,
but their behavior speaks louder than words.
Because real connection demands time—not leftovers, but intentional presence.
We Do the Same Thing Ourselves
If we are honest, we act the same way.
For people or things that don’t interest us:
– we become “busy”
– we reply late
– we avoid commitments
And for what truly matters to us, we always find a way. Before judging others, we must recognize this truth in ourselves.
“Understand, Don’t Force”
This statement carries a powerful lesson:
If someone isn’t making time for you, don’t force them.
– Repeated reminders
– Complaints
– Blaming yourself, only weaken your self-respect.
Where there is interest, there is effort, Where there is no effort, the answer is already clear.
Interest and Respect Are Deeply Connected
Making time is not only about interest—it is also about respect.
When someone values you:
– they care about your feelings
– they don’t keep you waiting
– they don’t treat your time casually
A lack of time often reflects a lack of respect. There Are Exceptions — But They Don’t Change the Rule. Yes, genuine difficulties do exist—
illness, emergencies, emotional exhaustion.
But these are temporary, not permanent patterns.
If “busy” becomes a constant explanation,
it is no longer a circumstance—it is a choice.
The Core Lesson
This idea is not meant to blame anyone, but to help us accept reality. Those who value you will make time Those who don’t will make excuses And in both cases, your responsibility is to:
– recognize the truth
– protect your self-worth
– invest where your presence is valued
Philosophical Conclusion
Life is limited, and time is priceless. People who repeatedly keep you waiting do not truly value your time.
And those who do value you never say,
“I’m too busy.”
They simply say,
“I’ll make time for you.”
Final Words
Remember this: You deserve to be a priority, not an option.
Where you constantly feel like a burden,
you should not stay.
Because the truth remains—
if someone is genuinely interested,
they will always make time.
RAJEEV VERMA 