Rajeev Verma
Ways to Become Wise
Becoming wise is not a one-day task but a continuous journey. Wisdom does not come only from reading books or collecting information; it emerges from how we observe life, how deeply we think, and how sincerely we learn from our experiences.
As it is beautifully said:
“Read a little, think more, speak less, and listen more — these are the true ways to become wise.”
These four simple yet powerful principles bring depth, clarity, balance, and maturity into one’s life.
1. Read a Little — But Read the Right Things
Reading is the foundation of knowledge, but in today’s world, what we read is far more important than how much we read.
Meaningless or superficial content only fills the mind with noise, while useful, meaningful, and high-quality reading develops awareness and expands perspective.
Some valuable categories include:
– Writings of thinkers and philosophers
– Books on personal development, psychology, history, or sciences
– Spiritual and practical texts
“Knowledge is not measured by quantity, but by quality.”
2. Think More — The Practice of Reflection
Reading only gives information; thinking gives understanding. Many people read a lot but do not reflect, and therefore cannot apply the knowledge in their life.
Reflection helps us:
– Draw conclusions
– Understand right from wrong
– Improve judgment and clarity
It is through thinking that knowledge transforms into wisdom.
3. Speak Less — Mastering the Power of Silence
There is an old saying:
“A wise person speaks only when necessary.”
Unnecessary talking wastes time, energy, and sometimes reputation. Speaking less shows that a person:
– Thinks before reacting
– Has emotional control
– Respects words and communication
– Precise and meaningful speech increases both one’s influence and one’s respect.
4. Listen More — The Greatest Skill of Learning
Listening is one of the strongest tools of learning. When we listen patiently to others’ ideas, perspectives, or experiences, we develop:
– Better understanding
– Openness and maturity
– Empathy and tolerance
“The one who learns to listen, learns everything.”
Concluding, By applying these four principles— reading wisely, thinking deeply, speaking consciously, and listening attentively- anyone can make life richer, calmer, and more meaningful.
Wisdom is not simply having information; it is the ability to use that information with understanding, humility, and balance.
When a person becomes humble in learning, thoughtful in speech, reflective in mind, and patient in listening—only then can they truly be called wise.