Rajeev Verma
Finding peace in life is a desire everyone carries within. But peace is not something you can buy from a marketplace—it is a state of mind created through our thoughts, behavior, and decisions. In today’s fast-paced and competitive world, many of us live under the illusion that everyone around us truly belongs to us. But reality is very different. That is why it is said:
“If you want peace in life, first remove the illusion that everyone is yours.”
It’s true that not every smiling face is genuine, and not every kind word comes from the heart. People stay with us only as long as they benefit from us or need us. So, expectations should be kept carefully and wisely. The more expectations we have, the deeper the disappointment. The fewer we have, the stronger and more peaceful our mind becomes.
The biggest rule for happiness is—make your own decisions. Society’s opinions, comparisons, and judgments often disconnect us from our true selves. Therefore, if your happiness, dreams, and life choices are based on what others expect, rather than what you truly want, you will always remain unhappy.
Someone has rightly said:
“People who make decisions based on the world’s opinion are always unhappy.”
Because the world doesn’t care how you live unless it affects them. The world knows how to judge—not how to support. So, it’s wiser to shape your life based on your circumstances, experience, and personal needs rather than someone else’s expectations.
Every person’s journey, challenges, strengths, and timing are different. That’s why comparing yourself to others or changing your path based on others’ choices is unfair—to yourself. The right path in life is the one that feels right to you—not the one that looks right to others.
To live peacefully, a few things are essential:
– Keep expectations minimal.
– Don’t consider any situation or relationship permanent.
– Learn to accept what you cannot control.
– Make decisions based on your reality—not on society’s opinions.
– Learn to value yourself, because others value you only when you value yourself.
In the end, it is enough to understand one simple truth—
Life, people, and circumstances will change. But the person who stands firm on their principles and decisions finds real peace.
So remember—
Peace comes when you understand yourself, accept yourself, and live your life on your own terms—not the world’s.
RAJEEV VERMA 