Rajeev Verma, Self composed & published in 1992
Every person in the world always wishes to get the desired results. Whatever he thinks or imagines, may he get it in all ways. Why do you have whatever you have?
A person can achieve the things towards which he has attraction in his mind, but the condition is that the person thinks about the same subject, makes efforts for it and also has self-confidence. Similarly, if you want hope, success, happiness and prosperity, think about them and try to get them, then you will get them.
You think only what you are.
What are you? Make some effort to know this.
Human personality is made up of two things. They are: Hereditary and Environmental. Hereditary is a reflection of the personality of the parents, grandparents, height, appearance and complexion. But environment plays an important role in shaping personality. Whatever you are, you are a product of your environment. You become what you think, what kind of environment you live in, what kind of people you live among, what you imagine.
Your life gets shaped by what you think, think and believe. As you are, you start forming similar thoughts for others too. If you are a selfish person then you will call the other person selfish too. When some people are not successful, they blame others for their failures and start cursing. They blame their failure on parents, luck, society and system. They blame their mistakes on others.
Some people are just jealous of others but do not try to move ahead of them by working twice as hard as their rivals. Seeing others rich, they talk about luck or call them corrupt and become silent. But these foolish people do not see the dedication, determination and willpower behind their success.
You feel, as you think, so will your nature become. You will think as your nature becomes and then you will get results in return according to your thinking powers. If you become surrounded by thoughts of jealousy, hatred and anger, you will get only jealousy, hatred and anger in return. Some people forget the greatness of life. They can harm anyone to fulfill their desires. Such people try to cut the throats of others for their desires. This is the wrong way to proceed.
Move forward, move fast, run but with your faith, in your strength, by trusting in your feet. Try to get ahead of others by not pushing them or hurting them or knocking them down.
Many people feel shy in doing hard work. They hesitate while doing any physical work and feel as if they are doing a menial job. Whereas no work is small. But to please the senior, light items are kept here and there in front of him. Those fools do not know that actions yield results. They forget that God also helps those who help themselves.
Many people say that they do not pay attention to even the smallest things. They make a big mistake. Whether the matter is small or very big, it is a thing, it is an incident or accident. That is definitely a moment related to life. It can or does have an impact on life. Small things keep coming in every person’s life. Many people ignore them, do not pay attention to them. They brush it off as a “minor issue”. But the matter is a matter which remains indelible in the mind. This simple thing sometimes works wonders
Sometimes you expose yourself by criticizing someone. You are not doing any harm to anyone, yet people are your enemies and are criticizing you. You are called bad in the society, even though you do not do bad things. You are an honest man, hardworking, just have a small flaw. You make a simple mistake. Therefore, do not ignore any small mistake or a big mistake. Don’t ignore it considering it a minor issue. Think about why that mistake happened? How did it happen and what effect will it have on your life and your friends? Which friends did you lose?
Sometimes we say many such things to our friends jokingly which they consider bad or very bad but they do not express their displeasure. You don’t even pay attention. You avoid small things or simple things, but in the eyes of those friends, you fall. They start considering you a bad person.
How can a person who cannot know himself know the universe? First of all you have to recognize yourself. Unless man recognizes himself, he will not be able to know the secrets of creation. That moment in a man’s life is important and great when he recognizes the power within him. Takes a look at his characteristics. The divine qualities hidden in man are revealed. Don’t think of your dreams as just dreams. The dream you desire deep in your heart can become reality.
To achieve success in life, it is extremely important that you introspect and find out what perceptions people have about you. How much people like you and how much they dislike you. It becomes known through behavior and conduct. Don’t be upset over your mistakes. Don’t shed tears of repentance, rather think about how such mistakes can be avoided in future.
Introspection will give you information about how popular or infamous you are? How successful or unsuccessful are you? How many qualities do you have and how many demerits? There are many people who think in their mind that whatever they say is being appreciated. His words are liked. They never say anything wrong. They do not make mistakes whereas the reality is that everything they say is bad in the society, everyone criticizes them, every word and action of theirs is flawed.
One whose heart is filled with hatred, anger, selfishness and jealousy can never find happiness. Often, when what we think about others comes into practice, when we come into contact with them, something else comes out. We consider someone a noble, honest and decent person and become friends with him. Coming home starts. A man’s character can be best judged by the little things he does when he is not careful.
You know that a friendly person is soft-spoken, tactful and humble, that is why he is also popular. Everyone praises him. Most people have a nature that they do not want to see others moving forward. There is a feeling of jealousy in their heart. They create obstacles in the work of others. No noble, enthusiastic, honest and ambitious person fits among people with such tendencies.
A true man is the one who is happy with others, by whom others are happy. Remember, no one breaks relationships, they break on their own. The more you keep increasing your interaction with the society, the more love you will get in return from the society. You will receive what you share. You share love, you will get love in return.
A scholar has said:
Character can never become great if habits are not good.
“The character is a bundle of good habits.”
RAJEEV VERMA 