Rajeev Verma
A woman who does not think about any man other than her husband, such a wife has been called devoted to her husband in the scriptures. According to Garuda Purana, such wives give strength to their husbands and ultimately enjoy happiness.
According to Acharya Chanakya, discord occurs in the house due to disputes over every issue and an angry woman. In the house where such a woman lives, there is never happiness and peace and in the end they end up suffering.
According to Acharya Chanakya, a person should abandon such a wife.
One sign of a cheating partner is that such a partner never helps at home, neither in money nor in action. This is also a signal that she is not serious about this relationship.
Along with this, also pay attention to their mood, their daily routine and clothes. If she seems happy or sad without any reason, then it becomes even more certain that she is having an affair with another sex.
A study exploring psychological insights about infidelity in women found that certain behaviors may indicate a woman’s tendency to cheat. These include lack of empathy, disrespect, and disregard for your partner’s emotional well-being.
The relationship between husband and wife is based on trust, in such a situation cheating on your partner is no less than a crime. But many times when a person is not happy in his relationship or his partner cannot fulfill his expectations, then he starts getting closer to someone else.
In such a situation, you can know some important signs here to ensure that your wife is not unfaithful to you. This is usually seen in the behavior of women when they are hiding something from their partner, like having a relationship with another man.
If she is having an illicit relationship then a lot of changes are seen in her behavior and lifestyle. Such people having illicit relations are very cautious. They don’t give their cell phones to anyone. They even put face recognition password in the gallery of their mobile. Such people remain engrossed in their own thoughts and try to remain a little isolated. Wearing nice clothes every day and talking on the phone late at night after everyone goes to sleep are symptoms of illicit relationship are. If your partner keeps ignoring you and does not talk to you properly, then it is possible that she is having an illicit affair.
Does’t express love by doing small things
It is only through small things that the relationship between husband and wife becomes stronger. Making tea for each other in the morning, giving a good-bye kiss before work, praising, surprising, hugging are the keys to a happy relationship.
In such a situation, when your wife stops doing these small things that she used to do, it may be a sign that she is doing all this for another man. Another meaning of this sign could also be that she is not happy in the relationship with you.
If your wife has started becoming more concerned about the privacy of gadgets like mobile or laptop, then there is a 99% chance that she is cheating. Apart from this, going to a place alone on receiving a call, avoiding giving the phone to anyone else, deleting the browser history of laptop or tablet are also signs of extramarital affair. Keep in mind that being husband and wife does not necessarily mean that all the passwords should be shared with each other, but there should not be any problem in sharing it with the partner.
Doesn’t complain about spending less time together
Especially wives like that their husbands spend maximum time with them. In such a situation, if your wife now avoids going anywhere with you, or does not complain about spending less time together, does not object to you staying out of the house till late, then be careful. Because this change could also be the result of her relationship with another man.
Being on the phone all the time
If nowadays you find your wife talking on the phone or messaging all the time, then be alert. Because it is a sign that she is getting closer to another person. Along with this, pay attention to her mood, if she seems happy or sad without any reason, then it becomes even more certain that she is having an affair with another man.
Stay out of the house more
If the excuses for going out of the house for small tasks are increasing, or your wife has started staying out for a longer time on the pretext of work, then it is a bad sign for you. Maybe she has to make all these excuses to spend time with her boyfriend.
Avoids physical relations
Not having sex with you or always trying to avoid it is the biggest sign of a cheating person. But if at one time your sex life with your wife was going well and suddenly there is a change in her behaviour, then it is a sign for you to be careful.
You can see that something seems wrong from her body language. She starts showing signs of absent-mindedness and doesn’t value spending time with you anymore.
Telling a lie and catching a lie are both very complex things. It becomes very difficult when lies are told in the relationship between husband and wife. Theft of valuables or pretending that valuables have been stolen by one of the partners while living under the same roof is also called a premeditated conspiracy. There is no place for lies and cheating in the relationship between husband and wife.
Psychological tricks can prove to be very helpful in detecting someone’s lies like-
Habit of averting eyes
If someone is lying then it is quite possible that the other person might be turning a blind eye. Many times people do such things too much and science says that in such a situation it can create a situation of partner lying again and again. This can be the easiest way to detect someone’s lies.
Putting off important things
As far as your partner is concerned, postponing important work can be laziness, but if someone is postponing a very important thing then it can have two meanings. Firstly, he is not interested in that matter and secondly, he is telling a lie related to that matter.
Avoid giving direct answers
Many times, despite having a simple answer to a question, the partner does not talk about it directly and is trying to twist the issue by giving very wrong or strange answers. That means he tries to avoid your question. That is, he tries to avoid your question and in such a situation it can be very easy to catch a lie.
Time out or avoidance
Perhaps most women are troubled by this problem that their partner does not take out time for them, but if someone suddenly becomes busy and is unable to take out time for a particular thing, then it is possible that he is lying.
Talking defensively
If your partner becomes defensive on any of your questions and starts asking counter questions like, ‘Do you doubt me,Don’t you trust etc.’ So according to science, this is a symptom of lying.
Avoid sharing phone
Now we cannot completely associate this with lies because most of the people keep a lot of things private in their phones and it is important to have some privacy in the relationship, but if your partner is very sensitive about it and you also If it is not allowed then there may be some suspicion.
Respond differently to an event
Many times the partner repeatedly creates a different story about an incident and in such a situation it can be understood that he is lying about that incident. This mostly happens when some truth related to that incident is being hidden.
Say no to most everything
A lying partner may deny many things. This is quite normal and in such a situation, most of the things are related to meeting like going on a date, talking, watching a movie etc. refusing everything.
Many gestures without speaking
There are also many non-verbal signs which help in detecting lies like blinking excessively, repeatedly swallowing spit, getting nervous, shaking hands and legs, looking nervous etc.
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RAJEEV VERMA 