Rajeev Verma
My Dear Daughter,
May God bless you all happiness of Life.
I had gone thru your feelings. I am happy that you remember all what I told you knowingly or unknowingly. But one thing I want to say those feelings of mine may be according to my mood at that time or according to the ‘paris-thiti-yaan’at that time. I am sorry if I had hurt your feelings presently.
All jobs of life should be done in time. In Hindu methodology life is divided in various parts –life from age 1 to 12, when the child is innocent; then life from age 13 to 21, when a child put his/her all efforts in learning; from age 22 to 50 when one gets married and put all efforts for the welfare of family; from 51 to 60 when one put all efforts to settle their children and family, then comes age of 60 when one takes retirement from all jobs of life and want to live life in a cool way till end of his/her breath.
Confidence for marriage is built when one have a good knowledge of Hindu Granthas like Shiva Puraan, Mahabharata, Ramayana, Rama-charitamanas, Bhagwat Geeta, Gods of Hindus, Hindu Family, Hindu Samaj. All are available on Net but we are busy in wasting our time in chatting, fb and other social network. If a Hindu Child is taught about their ‘dharma’ then there may be no chaos.
I blame all electronic media that is destroying our precious Hindu Indian Culture. Today this electronic media have placed us in a horrible materialistic life. All people are running behind money, definition of relationship is changing. Now we can hear Live-in-relationship. Homo-sexual relationships, monogamy is vanishing day by day, poly gamy is in a raise, post marital relationships, etc. The young generation is in a chaos. They do not know what is right and what is wrong. The young generation defines it “Jindagi key mazey”. Really stupid things are happening. They do not know priorities of life. Parents are living is a fear. Fear that cannot be defined with a girl child ! We are facing many many bad situations. Can you imagine what would be the life of Father or Mother when a girl is Raped ? Can you describe what would be the life of a young raped girl ? Can you say that in todays circumstances girl is fearless or safe ? Can you describe feelings – the happening of the day when you stopped jogging ? You cannot imagine a father’s feeling nor mothers. I am always in a stress ? I have described my all fears what I have in this small paragraph. Situations changes in seconds. One cannot predict “this cannot happen with me”. If one says than he/she is the biggest fool of this world. Females are NOT safe in India.
It is your good luck that you posted family fotograph on fb and got a good call for matrimonial. This I consider God’s Grace. May God guide us right path. Have faith in God. Everything will settle according to God’s Grace. May God bless you.
But –
Today’s generation does not want to learn from their elders. They are extra confident but always loosers!
Nobody will stop you to rise in your life either academically or professionally after marriage. All things will be settled before going ahead.
So Good Luck,
Reply,
Yours father – ….XXX…., 21-Nov-2013
RAJEEV VERMA 